Please Explain Anxiety to Me! Simple Biology and Solutions for Children and Parents


Author
Laurie Zelinger
Publisher
Loving Healing Press

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This book translates anxiety from the jargon of psychology into concrete experiences that children can relate to. Children and their parents will understand the biological and emotional components of anxiety responsible for the upsetting symptoms they experience. Please Explain Anxiety to Me gives accurate physiological information in child friendly language. A colorful dinosaur story explains the link between brain and body functioning, followed by practical therapeutic techniques that children can use to help themselves. Children will:

  • learn that they can handle most issues if they are explained at their developmental level
  • understand the brain/body connection underlying anxiety
  • identify with the examples given
  • find comfort and reassurance in knowing that others have the same experience
  • be provided with strategies and ideas to help them change their anxiety responses
  • be able to enjoy childhood and to give up unnecessary worrying

    Therapists and Educators Praise "Please Explain Anxiety To Me"
    "On any given day, around thirty percent of my patients have anxiety related symptoms. The simplicity and completeness of the explanations and treatment of anxiety given in this book is remarkable. Defi ning the cause, treating the core symptoms, and most importantly bringing it to a child's level accompanied by wonderful illustrations, is an incredible feat. I will defi nitely use this book in my practice."
    Zev Ash, M.D. F.A.A.P., Pediatrician

    "Anxiety is, of course, a complicated neuro-physiological process but it has been reduced to understandable terms in this brilliantly illustrated book for children. I would go even further and say that there are adults who could benefit from the straightforward approach."
    Rick Ritter, MSW, author of "Coping with Physical Loss and Disability"

    "This excellent book is perfect for parents to read and discuss with their children. It's also perfect for school professionals to use in the school setting."
    Herb R. Brown, Ed.D., Superintendent of Schools Oceanside Public Schools, New York

    "...A charming--and calming--explanation of anxiety that will help both children and their parents turn their internal worry switches to the OFF position."
    Ellen Singer, New York Times-acclaimed bestselling author

    Learn more at www.DrZelinger.com
    From the "Growing With Love" Series at Loving Healing Press www.LHPress.com

    SEL036000, Self-Help : Anxieties & Phobias
    PSY006000 Psychology : Psychotherapy - Child & Adolescent
    JNF053050 Juvenile Nonfiction : Social Issues - Emotions & Feelings


Reviews

 Ever wonder why we get nervous, worried, stressed, distressed or anxious?   Most people do feel that way at some point, but it is not the same for everyone.  For children it can be even more difficult to deal with and understanding the reason why may be the first step to helping them get through it.  Identifying with a dinosaur, learning that they possibly had the same reactions to worries may help a child understand that they are not the only one.  Learning the whys of anxiety are not enough, children and adults alike that suffer through this fear need a way to cope, something that can help them through the worst of the symptoms.  Getting certain breathing techniques or exercises that can help to calm yourself may be enough, but knowing you have someone to go to can also help. 

 
 
In story book fashion, Laurie Zelinger , PhD breaks down the whys of anxiety in easy to understand ways.  There are real psychological terminology used as well, but the words are explained in a concise and appropriate ways, and the word is also given phonetically to make the pronunciation easier to get.   The large pictures make the dinosaur story feel like a regular picture story book.  The story is worded so that it is easy to ask the questions like -  “have you ever felt like that” several times which does make the comparison with the dinosaurs more realistic.    The helpful suggestions for reducing anxiety and relieving some of the symptoms are easy to understand and feels more like a game than a calming tool, but if it works, even better.    The closing rhymes are fun to say and fun to practice.  All this information, so much of which was common since, the story was good but not great and the pictures were at times distracting from the “anxiety” topic of the book.  Great concept to help children learn to cope with anxiety, I just expected and wanted more.
 

Reviewed on 03/10/2011 by ReviewTheBook.com Member Debbie Berry

 I was eager to get this book for review and happy that I did. Dr. Laurie Zelinger and son Jordan Zelinger have managed to explain the biological reasons for anxiety in such a simple way that my young children easily understood it. My 6-year-old son and even my daughter loved the use of dinosaurs in the explanation, and I thought the comparison to a switch turning on and off was brilliant. The illustrations are also simple, colourful and age-appropriate.

This is a comforting book, both for children and parents. The therapeutic strategies outlined are uncomplicated and effective, and at the end of the book are summarized in the form of rhymes to make them easy to remember. My children quickly associated with some of the situations that can cause anxiety. It made them realize that they are not the only ones to feel that way at times. Throughout the days after I read them this book, my children on different occasions have said to me, “Mom, my switch is on.” I quickly understood what they meant and was happy they recognized how they were feeling. I asked them if they remembered what they could do to alleviate the feeling of anxiety and they did and put some of those solutions to practice.
 
Best of all, this is an empowering book. Every parent should read it. It is an essential tool to explain what anxiety is to children but most importantly how to deal with it. And in a society where the medical community tends to overmedicate patients, including children, I cannot stress how good it is to read a book to my children that shows them how they can control how they feel. Kudos to the Zelingers!
 

Reviewed on 10/21/2010 by ReviewTheBook.com Member Laura Fabiani







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